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Cate & Ty Break It Down

Genetic Mirroring and Brain Wiring: Understanding Adoptee Development w/ Psychotherapist Amy Silvia

Cate & Ty Break It Down

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4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 9 July 2025

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

Cate & Ty sit down with psychotherapist and adoptee Amy Silvia (@psychotherapist.amy_) , who shares her personal journey through the Baby Scoop Era and the complex process of reconnecting with her birth family. Drawing on decades of clinical experience working with thousands of adoptees and birth parents, Amy unpacks the profound impact of genetic mirroring, attachment trauma, and the crucial need for "adoptee-focused" therapy. Amy sheds light on the crucial difference between "adoption competence" and truly "adoptee-focused" care, highlighting the mental health struggles faced by adoptees and birth parents, including the shockingly high rates of suicidal ideation. Discover how normalizing difficult adoption conversations can lead to profound healing for the entire adoption triad.

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0:00.0

Okay, so guys, welcome back to another episode of Kate and I, break it down.

0:12.9

Today we have cycle therapist Amy.

0:17.3

We're super excited to have you.

0:19.7

Thank you so much for joining us today.

0:22.7

Oh, it's my pleasure. Happy to be here.

0:25.5

Yeah, so I think first off, tell people who don't know who you are, what your work is, or kind of how this all came about for you.

0:34.8

Yeah, so I'm an adopteee and I begin just by saying that because a lot of your

0:43.3

listeners know your story and I think you probably connected with me because of that. And while I've

0:50.2

been a therapist for gosh, 32 or so years. Over the pandemic, my children who are young adults

1:00.2

said to me, Mom, you should really post some of your adoption story and content on Instagram

1:07.7

because maybe people want to hear about it.

1:12.5

And so I thought, you know, I'm going to put it out there.

1:15.2

And if all three of the other people on the planet who want to hear my story,

1:19.2

listen to me, that would be great.

1:21.3

So I started really taking a deep dive into the work that I do professionally with adoptees, but added in my own

1:29.7

story so that people understood I'm coming from a background of really knowing the journey of

1:36.8

being an adoptee and my own experience with it and my own hurdles and my own mental health

1:43.9

struggles that I've had as a

1:45.4

result of that impact and my process of working through that, but also how I've taken my

1:53.5

clinical training in this area of attachment disruption and worked with literally thousands

1:59.9

of adoptees, birth parents, um, and adoptive families.

2:05.0

So I just started creating content and, uh, people, it resonated with people.

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