General Questions | S1E12 "The Wedding"
How We Made Your Mother
Audacy & Josh Radnor and Craig Thomas
4.8 • 920 Ratings
🗓️ 19 June 2025
⏱️ 27 minutes
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Summary
In this bonus “General Questions” episode of How We Made Your Mother, Josh, Craig, and Alek reflect on the Season 1 episode “The Wedding,” especially the lasting impact of Ashley Williams as Victoria, even with just seconds of screen time. They explore why her character resonated so deeply, whether she was ever considered to be the mother if the show had ended early, and how the timing of her reveal was crafted to feel mythic and cinematic. They talk about writing under the pressure of a midseason pickup, the significance of Victoria’s entrance, and the show’s deeper themes of trust, surrender, and the idea that life unfolds with unseen magic. The episode also touches on fan interest in “Who’s the mother?” and how the show was structured around anticipation, not instant gratification.
Questions asked during the episode:
Did Craig and Carter always plan to bring Victoria back, or was it due to audience love?
How did the writers gauge audience reaction in a pre-social media world?
Were you ready for Victoria to be the mother if the show was canceled after 13 episodes?
Did Josh do a chemistry read with Ashley Williams?
What if the real love story is trusting the right person will find you, even if that means standing alone at a wedding?
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome to another very special bonus episode of how we made your mother. |
| 0:16.4 | These episodes, of course, we're calling general questions. General questions. |
| 0:22.6 | Easy. How was it. You discussed me. We didn't. No. That was a good one. That was a good one. |
| 0:28.2 | There's a lag. There's a lag. There's a lag. We all need to be in the same room. Come on. Let's all. Let's all be in. I imagine if we all got in the same room, we would just crush this. |
| 0:38.3 | We would. So we, uh, a couple all got in the same room, we would just crush this. We would. |
| 0:39.3 | So we, a couple days ago, we released the episode where we talked about the wedding, which was, I think, |
| 0:46.5 | episode 12 of the first season of how I met your mother, which is the show we're talking |
| 0:52.5 | about, how I met your mother, which ran on CBS from 2005 to 2014, |
| 0:56.6 | but has had a wonderful, thrilling, brilliant afterlife. |
| 1:01.8 | People keep discovering the show. |
| 1:03.7 | On Hulu and Netflix, I should point out. |
| 1:06.1 | Please keep watching it on both of those. |
| 1:08.0 | Watch every episode on both, so we get picked up to continue being |
| 1:11.8 | on both. Give us the numbers. So we covered a lot of ground on the wedding. I loved our conversation. |
| 1:18.0 | I love all of these, Craig and Alec. I'm having such a nice time strolling down memory lane with both |
| 1:23.3 | of you. And a huge shout out to Alec Lev, by the way, right? Like our producer extraordinaire. Alec puts these things together at the beginning of you. And huge shout out to Alec Lev, by the way, right? Like, our producer extraordinaire. |
| 1:29.4 | Alec puts these things together at the beginning of episodes where we hear from fans, the main episodes, not the bonus ones, but boy, is it beautiful. Thank you, Alec, for that. Every time I start to cry. Yeah. You're welcome. Cheers to Alec. Well, thank you. And I will, I will, I will, additionally, |
| 1:43.9 | will addendumly shout out Doug, |
| 1:46.8 | who does a lot of the research and reads through a lot of all these letters. And Emily, who's joined the show, who's also going through all of these, choosing the best openers, best closers for you guys. So it's phenomenal. It takes phenomenal. It takes a village. And Alex, let's talk about |
| 2:01.3 | Alex for a second. We have an engineer. That's the, that's it. You've just heard the entire quimium team. Alex is our engineer who mixes all this, makes it sound great. We love you all. It's great. Thank you. And thank you. And Alex, I, you know, that's it. That's a series finale. |
| 2:15.9 | It sounds like we're signing off for good. |
| 2:18.6 | Alec, you are such a smart film guy. I rarely write a screenplay that I don't run by you because you're so smart about structure. And it occurs to me that in the main episodes, we're really doing a three-act structure. We have a three-act structure for this podcast, right? It's intuitively very |
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