GARY JOHN BISHOP | Become the Father Your Kids Deserve
Order of Man
Ryan Michler
4.8 • 9K Ratings
🗓️ 12 September 2023
⏱️ 64 minutes
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Summary
If you’re a father (or plan to be one), I know how it is to feel completely inadequate to be the type of dad your children need you to be. Self-doubt, challenging life circumstances, and past emotional trauma all combine to create the perfect storm of insecurity in raising your sons and daughters right.
My guest today is New York Times Bestselling Author, Gary John Bishop and today he joins me to talk about his latest book, Grow Up: Becoming the Parent Your Kids Deserve. We cover such a wide array of topics in this conversation including why you should question your past and how to heal from it, the value of “empathetic intelligence” and how to use it effectively with your kids, how responsibility supersedes truthfulness, overcoming shame and guilt from parenting mistakes, and what it means to truly forgive someone.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
- Parenting is rewarding - and frustrating
- We’re not always going to get it right
- Challenges of parenting after divorce
- Your kids are always observing you
- Your kids will come to their own determinations
- Kids are “traumatized” by different things
- Kids assign their own meaning to events
- We need to be clear with our kids about why we are doing what we are doing
- Don’t box your kids in
- Teaching your kids to be truthful is key
- Self-punishment is a way to distract
- You can’t get to forgiveness and hang onto blame
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| 0:00.0 | If you're a father or plan to be one, I know how it is to feel completely inadequate to be |
| 0:05.7 | the type of dad your children need you to be. Self-doubt, challenging life circumstances, |
| 0:11.2 | and past emotional trauma all combined to create this perfect storm of insecurity in raising |
| 0:17.2 | your sons and daughters right. My guest today is New York Times bestselling author Gary John Bishop, |
| 0:22.4 | and today he joins me to talk about his latest book Grow Up, Becoming the Parent Your Kids Deserve. |
| 0:27.6 | We cover such a wide array of topics in this conversation, including why you should question |
| 0:32.6 | your past and how to heal from it, the value of what he calls empathetic intelligence, |
| 0:37.5 | and how to use it effectively with your kids, how responsibility oftentimes supersedes truthfulness, |
| 0:44.0 | overcoming shame and guilt from parenting mistakes, and ultimately what it means to truly forgive someone. |
| 0:50.1 | You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest, embrace your fears, and boldly |
| 0:54.6 | charge your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time. |
| 1:00.1 | You are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life. This is who you |
| 1:07.0 | are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done, |
| 1:12.3 | you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Mickler. I'm your host. |
| 1:18.3 | I'm also the founder of this podcast and the Order of Man Movement. And if you're very new to the |
| 1:23.3 | movement or to the podcast itself, I am glad that you're tuned in. Hopefully you're here because |
| 1:28.8 | you want to be a better man, because that is our goal and our objective. And I do that by |
| 1:33.7 | recording these podcasts. I've had guys like our guest today, Gary John Bishop on before, |
| 1:38.9 | Jaco Willink, Tim Tebow, Tim Kennedy, Terry Cruz, Ben Shapiro, Matthew McConaughey, Andy Frasilla. |
| 1:48.3 | We've had such incredible, incredible men on the podcast, which is a testament to the fact that |
| 1:52.8 | these guys want to serve. They want to share their insight. They want to impart their wisdom. |
| 1:57.2 | And also the lessons that have come hard for them. So we don't have to replicate those same |
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