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This is a show about individual experience and personal identity.

There may be times when folks use identifying words or phrases that don't feel right to you.

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Welcome to Query.

Hey Query, Rose Cami here. I just want to let you know that this Friday, the 9th of November, I will be in St. Louis for a show.

On Saturday, I will be in New York on the 10th so you can head to camern

S.P.C.E.D.O. .com slash tour, get all your tickets there. Those are my last two tour dates this fall.

So if you don't live in New York or St. Louis, I assume you should buy a house and move there by this weekend.

I also have a really interesting interview on today's show.

My guest is Garrett Conley. He is the writer of a memoir called Boy Erased that's now a movie that came out on the second.

It's a pretty big movie. It starts Lucas Hedges and Joel Eigerton, Russell Crowe, Nicole Kimmon.

But also, the memoir Boy Erased is about Garrett's experience going to conversion therapy when he was 19 years old.

And together with the new movie, also from our friend's a stature and Chad Ebbermrod, the cook at our radio lab,

there's a new podcast series called On Erased. It's about the history of conversion therapy in America.

You can check out a trailer that will play right after I speak now. This is a trailer for the new podcast On Erased.

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