meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Fail Better with David Duchovny

Gabor Maté and the Reason We’re All Addicted

Fail Better with David Duchovny

Grace Cohen-Chen

Society & Culture

4.6534 Ratings

🗓️ 14 May 2024

⏱️ 50 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

This is my most personal episode so far, but it's really about the wisdom of Dr. Gabor Maté. The author, physician, and public speaker reminds us all how we sometimes become too comfortable with self-criticism and regret. We talk about parenting, collaboration, and addiction, and I leave the interview feeling a level of gratitude that I don’t know what to do with. Here’s that conversation. Follow me on Instagram at @davidduchovny. Stay up to date with Lemonada on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram at @LemonadaMedia. Joining Lemonada Premium is a great way to support our show and get bonus content. Subscribe today at bit.ly/lemonadapremium. And if you want to continue the conversation with other listeners, join the My Lemonada community at https://lemonadamedia.com/mylemonada/ For a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this and every other Lemonada show, go to lemonadamedia.com/sponsors. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

It's morning in New York.

0:02.8

Oh, God.

0:06.2

Hey, everybody.

0:07.3

I'm Mandy Patinkin.

0:08.7

And I'm Catherine Grady.

0:09.8

And we have a new podcast.

0:11.7

It's called Don't Listen to Us.

0:14.1

Many of you've asked for our advice.

0:16.1

Tell me, what is wrong with you people?

0:19.2

Don't listen to us.

0:20.3

Our Take It or Leave a Advice show every Wednesday out now.

0:24.7

A Lemonada Media Original.

0:30.0

Yeah, so I wrote this book, Bucky Fucking Dent, which takes as its backdrop the 78 pennant race between the Yankees and the Boston Red Sox.

0:41.0

The book is about loving the losers, really. And it's really, in many ways, the same kind of

0:48.3

philosophical bent as this podcast. It's about how failure, in this case the Boston Red Sox losing

0:54.0

every year since 1918,

0:56.4

teaches you to be a better human being, teaches you to be a more empathetic human being,

1:00.4

teaches you more about life than winning, winning, winning.

1:03.7

So that's kind of what I'm dealing with there.

1:07.2

And also there's one of the underpinnings of the book is the disruption of a father-son

1:13.4

relationship that happens very early on in the child's life. The child gets sick, the father gets

1:17.8

scared. There's a disruption. And when I was reading Gabor's book, The Myth of Normal, I was

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Grace Cohen-Chen, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Grace Cohen-Chen and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.