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The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

Gabor Mate: The Childhood Lie That’s Ruining All Of Our Lives

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

FlightStory

Society & Culture, Business, Education

4.613.2K Ratings

🗓️ 7 November 2022

⏱️ 117 minutes

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Summary

Gabor Mate is a multi-bestselling author and a world leading expert on trauma and how it effects us throughout our whole lives. A holocaust survivor and a first generation immigrant, Gabor’s knowledge and wisdom on the scars trauma leaves behind is deep and drawn from personal experience. In a conversation that unlocks the answers to people’s most burning questions about trauma, mental health, ADHD, and the hidden hardwire of our brain, Gabor brings us one step closer to really knowing ourselves and our inner urges. Gabor’s voice, both literally and in terms of what he has to say, is like a balm for anyone who’s mental health has ever caused them worries. Gabor has been through things few of us can ever imagine, and his insights are those few of us could ever have thought of before. Gabor: Instagram - https://bit.ly/3zLZvRK Twitter - https://bit.ly/3E7nca4 Follow me: https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Financial stress on the parents translates into physiological stress in the children.

0:04.7

They didn't inherit anything in terms of a disease. They're just reacting to the environment.

0:09.7

People call Dr. Gavol Monte the People Whisper. Legendary thinker and best-selling author. People whisper.

0:12.6

Legendary Thinker and Best Selling Author.

0:14.8

He's highly sought after for his expertise on addiction,

0:17.8

stress and childhood development.

0:19.8

The evidence linking mental illness and childhood diversity is about as strong as

0:24.4

the evidence linking smoking and lung cancer and the average physician doesn't

0:28.3

hear a word about that it's astonishing. I can give you the example of Donald Trump I mean his father was a sacrifice

0:34.8

You are the enemy of the people go ahead for him these were not choices so much as survival techniques and that's the mark of a traumatized child a denial of reality.

0:44.0

What do I have to understand about your earliest years to understand you?

0:48.0

My grandparents were killed in Auschwitz and my mother and I barely survived and then my mother to save my life gives me to a stranger.

0:57.0

The sense I guess that I'm being rejected and abandoned because I'm not good enough.

1:01.0

How did that rear its ugly head throughout your life?

1:04.6

Any number of ways.

1:05.6

See, trauma, as I define it, is not about what happens to us.

1:08.4

It's about what happens inside of us as a result of what happens to us.

1:11.8

It's costing us in terms of our physical health,

1:13.7

a relationship, our mental health and so on. How does one go about correcting that? It's a

1:19.2

multi-layered answer. First of all. Without further ado, I'm Stephen Butler and this is the diary of a CEO.

1:28.0

I hope nobody's listening, but if you are, then please keep this yourself.

1:33.0

My dear little man, only after many long months do I take it in hand the pen, so that I may briefly sketch for you the unspeakable horrors of those times, the details mother wrote into her diary in the

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