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I think we all have Libra-type wounds in us.

Libra meaning balance, peace, harmony.

It's a very natural thing to crave, just peace, stability, structure.

You know, if you come from a chaotic environment,

having been on the receiving end of other people's negativity or other people's wounds

bleeding onto you and you didn't cause them, you still feel this sense to patch up the wound

and do the surgical things and stitch it and then

be there around to take the stitches out and it can cause you to be energetically exhausted,

depleted. As a recovering people pleaser myself, something I've learned is that, yes, I'm going to piss people off.

I'm going to make them really mad when they're very used to me having no boundaries,

having full access to me.

You want to talk to me?

Here I am.

You don't want to talk to me?

No problem.

Do your thing.

I understand.

You want to just criticize me over and over? It's okay. I will shake my head and say, okay, I can see that instead of saying,

no. I'm not going to rob you of your perception of me, but no. To tell people, do not talk to me like that, to tell people, I need this, and if you

cannot provide that, no harm, no foul, we can just go our separate ways. To tell people,

we're growing apart. And that breaks my heart heart but I understand it things like this right

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