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From cowboy boots to polyamory, 'Wanting' explores what it means for women to desire

NPR's Book of the Day

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Arts, Books

4.2 β€’ 671 Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 23 February 2023

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Margot Kahn and Kelly McMasters know that wanting is a very particular feeling. What women desire is constantly changing, of course: time, money, sex, new shoes. But as the editors of a new collection of essays, aptly titled Wanting, tell NPR's Ailsa Chang, they were more interested in exploring the process of yearning for something – and the rules we construct around that longing – than the objects that we ultimately do or do not get.

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0:00.0

It's NPR's Book of the Day. I'm Linda Holmes. The new essay collection, wanting women writing about desire, might sound like a sex book. And it's not not a sex book. But it's strange that the word desire conjures sex so specifically when people want so many things. Love and money, health, children, travel, adventure and security,

0:24.7

company and solitude. That's what Margo Khan and Kelly McMasters, who edited the collection,

0:29.9

wanted to do. They wanted to broaden the idea of desire and show the ways in which it can be

0:35.4

both a source of joy and a cause of pain.

0:38.6

They told NPR's Elsa Chang about some of the essays in the book and this elusive idea of wanting.

0:45.3

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1:04.2

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1:10.1

Women want to want.

1:13.1

That is the starting premise of two women who have put together an anthology of essays

1:17.3

that explore the different shades of female desire.

1:21.3

Make no mistake, this book is about more than sex.

1:24.8

It's a book that delves into how women define what desire is to them,

1:29.9

what rules they want to shed, to give into their deepest longings, and what it's like to

1:34.6

articulate those desires out loud and unashamed. All these essays are written by women,

1:40.7

and this new book called Wanting is edited by Margo Khan and Kelly McMasters,

1:46.5

who join us now. Welcome to both of you.

1:49.1

Thanks so much, Elsa. We're so excited. So I want to know how the idea for this book first came

1:54.3

together, including the decision to focus on the vantage point of women. Tell me.

1:59.2

This is Margo. For me, this book started with a sort of silly

2:04.0

story. My family had the great dog debate a few years ago, whether or not we should get a dog.

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