From Authoritarian to Connected Parenting (Without Being Too Sweet)
Calm Parenting Podcast
Kirk Martin
4.7 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 14 January 2024
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
From Authoritarian to Connected Parenting (Without Being Too Sweet)
Many of you grew up with an authoritarian parent who used fear to change your outward behavior while ruining your relationship. We don’t want that. So how can you create connection, build a trusting relationship, and teach your kids to control themselves…without being too harsh OR too sweet and getting walked all over?
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| 1:04.1 | It is really hard to raise a strong will child. These are kids who want to do things their own way. |
| 1:10.3 | If you push them, they will resist. They'll do the opposite of what you want them to do. They don't care about consequences. And so you're going to get frustrated. If you're married, you're going to fight over this because one of you, usually the husband, but not always some of the moms out there, you're like this, right? You're going to go, my way or the highway. |
| 1:27.7 | I'm going to show this kid who's boss. Good luck with that because they're fight or flight kids. They may fight you for a while, create more division in your marriage, and then eventually they'll just shut down and not do anything. And you're going to be like, well, we'll just do consequences. You're like, they don't care about it. And so one of the other parents, you may have swung too far the other way and you're too sweet, and now your child doesn't listen to you. They actually don't respect you sometimes. And it just doesn't work. And you find yourself kind of getting run over. So how do you strike that balance? We don't want to be authoritarian, |
| 2:02.1 | but we don't want to be too soft. So that is what we're going to discuss on this really important episode of the Calm Parent parenting podcast. Welcome. This is Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm. You can find us at Celebrate Calm. If you need any help, reach out to our strong-willed-son, Casey C-A-S-E-Y |
| 1:58.6 | at celebrate calm.com. |
| 2:00.5 | Tell us about your family. |
| 2:01.8 | Ages the kids. need any help, reach out to our strong-willed son, Casey, C-A-S-E-Y, at Celebrate Calm.com. |
| 2:19.5 | Tell us about your family, ages of the kids. |
| 2:21.8 | What are you struggling with most? |
| 2:23.6 | We get together as a family, we discuss it, we reply back to you personally and usually |
| 2:27.9 | very quickly with some very practical tools because that's what we do, and this is a really |
| 2:33.4 | hard mission. So So many of us were |
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