Hey everyone, welcome to The Curious Girl Diaries podcast. I'm Leila London, aka The Curious Girl. Now just to let you know,

this podcast is not suitable for work. It's also not suitable for anybody under 18. But the rest of you

consenting adults, let's get ready to talk about my sex life, sex in general,

and everything in between, an explicit, raunchy, fun detail.

All right, here we go.

Hello, everyone.

All right, this time I want to talk about friends with benefits.

And what's really on my mind is you know is is that actually

possible does that mythical creature that mythical dynamic that actual dynamic doesn't exist

I I think it does but it's really hard. It's hard to find the

right people for that. You know, it kind of got me on the subject is I was on the hookup site that I

use. They have a blog section and I was just, for the first time ever opened that up and I'm like well let me see what

people are writing about well first of all it was a lot of it you know a lot of it's kind of a bunch of

garbage but there are some good then I kind of stumbled across some people who had some good

things to say and some of it's a little ranty and you know as I've gotten a little rantee i think on the one i did before this

one um but at any rate i i did stumble across this one post where this woman was sent

talking about you know um like friends with benefits and what's the real definition and what's the

difference between that and the fuck buddy.

And it just kind of got me thinking about it.

I mean, I know that, you know, I mentioned it at some point about that, you know, it's

kind of hard to find i have spoken to um you know various friends about it and

you know the well one one person in particular who sort of does what I do, he's a guy.

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