Any time you were making an excuse for someone's behavior because we were wired that way and

our friends never turned to us and say, guess what, he's not that into you.

She doesn't like you.

But maybe we should.

Or you could maybe say your own way and say, you know what?

Maybe this isn't what you're looking for, but I think I will be afraid that it's saying

maybe that you want something different right now.

Maybe you're not that into feeling like you're not someone's priority.

Maybe we're not into feeling like we're someone's second choice.

We're listening to Sex with Emily.

I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation

around sex.

Question for you.

Are you cut out for a Friends with Benefits relationship?

If you crave regular sex but don't have the capacity for a full on relationship, well,

an FWB arrangement could be just with the doctor order.

But there's a lot you should know before diving in.

For some, Friends with Benefits can be a super satisfying way to get your needs met.

Not the commitment of a traditional partnership.

However, just because it's not traditional doesn't mean there aren't rules of engagement.

There's boundaries and there's a ton of communication.

I mean, if you want to do it right and you actually want this person to be your friend.

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