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Call Your Girlfriend

Friends with Babies

Call Your Girlfriend

Ann Friedman and Aminatou Sow

Society & Culture

4.74.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 August 2019

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Binaries aren't good for babies or friendships. We discuss angst around the "gender reveal" party from the blogger who popularized it. How to avoid judgement around a friend's parenting and their choice about whether to become a parent. Crucially, how to weather change when a friend has kids and you don't. Hint: communicate! Also, untested but good-smelling mosquito repellents. And, we have brand new merch + don't forget to buy tickets to CYG Live!

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Tour / Merch

Inventor of gender reveal parties weighs in!

How to hang out with your friend who has a kid

Childfree By Choice by Dr Amy Blackstone

No One Tells You This by Glynnis MacNicol

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Call Your Girlfriend.

0:01.6

A podcast for long distance festies everywhere.

0:04.3

I am, I'm in Attu, so.

0:05.8

And I'm Anne Friedman.

0:07.2

On this week's agenda, we are talking about babies and binaries,

0:11.4

namely the rise and fall of gender reveal parties,

0:15.0

and some questions about the divide that can open up between two friends

0:19.2

when one becomes apparent and one does not.

0:30.0

Time you had the talk.

0:33.8

Give your reasons.

0:37.5

Say it's not her fault.

0:41.5

Ready you just met somebody new.

0:45.8

Hi, Anne Friedman.

0:47.2

Hello, hello.

0:49.1

How's it going?

0:50.3

We are both OK.

0:51.5

I feel like that is the fairest assessment.

0:54.8

We are here.

0:58.3

We're here.

0:59.0

We're still here.

1:01.6

That's great.

1:02.1

The most you can hope for some weeks, truly.

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