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What's up real ones? Welcome to your Friday quickie

Where our goal is to give you tips to help improve your real relationships in less than five minutes.

I'm Ashisil.

And I'm Devon Steele.

Now let's get it in.

All right, so today's topic, we're going to be talking about something called

negative sentiment override.

And with negative sentiment override basically means is

when you are going through turmoil in your relationship,

where the trust has been broken,

when the act has been done that has broken the trust. Sometimes you can start to see that

emotional intimacy or that friendship fade away from your relationship and

when your partner does something that's neutral or they do something that's positive,

you look at it as if it's negative.

Yeah, for example, say you've been complaining to your man that he hasn't romanced you enough and one day

he brings home this beautiful bouquet of flowers and in a positive situation

you're like oh my gosh you bill you brought these for me, you picked out my favorite color, how you know about these flowers, right?

But in a negative sentiment override situation, you're looking at him like, what you do, what you're trying to cover up for you're not

feeling the roses you're not feeling none of that. Yeah and it's important to

notice if your relationship is suffering from this because research shows that relationships that have negative sentiment override present,

it could mean that your relationship is on the verge of ending.

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