Freya & The Annihilating Narcissistic Mother | Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse

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🗓️ 13 May 2024

⏱️ 60 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Freya shares her experience of growing up with a narcissistic mother and an enabling father, painting a vivid picture of the emotional rollercoaster that comes with a lack of consistent emotional safety and the struggle to break free from intergenerational trauma. Freya offers insight into the emotional labor of protecting her sibling from an abusive parent and the confusion that arises from seeing her father more as a peer than a caregiver. It's a story of scapegoats, projection, being good enough, emotional abuse, physical abuse, suicidal ideation, therapy, enabling parents, reenactments, codependency, self esteem, and identity. ***** Content Warning - This episode discusses physical abuse and suicidal ideation. **** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Freya,
0:07.3	and Freya was raised by an annihilating narcissistic mother.
0:12.2	It's a story of being good enough, projection, the enabling parent, and the healing process.
0:35.8	Music and the healing process. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick and with me today we have Freya. How are you?
0:47.7	I'm good, Brandon. Thanks for having me on. How are you doing? I am doing well and thank you you for asking and if you want to be a guest on our show
0:58.9	like freya is today then please do go to our website at narcissistapocalypse dot com top of the page
1:08.0	there's a button that says guest form when you click on on that button, it takes you to our guest form page.
1:13.5	And there you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button.
1:22.2	And please do send it in the format that we ask for.
1:25.3	And there is a content warning for today's episode as we do discuss
1:30.3	physical abuse and suicidal ideation in this episode. So that is your content warning for today.
1:37.5	And today we are going to hear Freya's story and we will be discussing her abusive mom. We
1:43.5	will be discussing projection. And Freya is a very
1:47.8	empathetic person toward her mom. And it's just a very good understanding of what happened to her
1:54.0	in her childhood. All the feelings are involved in this one. Plus, we delve into the role that her enabling father played and how that
2:04.6	really cracked her open in the healing process. It's not an easy thing to do, especially when you
2:11.1	see the enabler as a protector of sorts, but they are not a protector at all. And that is what Freya found out. And it was a very
2:21.7	hard thing to deal with and tackle. And just a big thank you to Freya for being here today. And
2:29.1	now I'm going to get out of my way and your way. Freya, the floor is now yours.
2:36.0	Thank you, Brandon.
2:39.0	Again, like, really honored to be on the show.
2:42.0	I really appreciate the time that you're alive for me.
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