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What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms

Fresh Take: Nicholas Epley on Why Talking to Strangers Can Make Us Happier

What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms

What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood

Kids & Family, Comedy, Parenting

4.81K Ratings

🗓️ 15 May 2026

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Why do we avoid small opportunities for connection with strangers, even when humans are wired for that very connection? Behavioral scientist Nicholas Epley, author of the new book A LITTLE MORE SOCIAL, explains why modern life leaves so many people feeling disconnected—and how small social choices can dramatically improve our well-being. Nick explains the science behind loneliness, why humans are biologically wired for connection, and how our fear of awkwardness keeps us from reaching out to others. From conversations with strangers on the subway to helping kids build social confidence, this episode explores how meaningful relationships are created through everyday interactions. The conversation covers: Why people underestimate how much others want connection too How smartphones, remote work, and modern convenience reduce social interaction Why talking to strangers often goes better than we expect The importance of modeling curiosity and openness for children Why meaningful conversations matter more than surface-level similarities How to become “a little more social” through small daily habits Here's where you can find Nick: www.nicholasepley.com Buy A LITTLE MORE SOCIAL: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9780593319543 What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Hello everyone and welcome to Fresh Take. From what fresh hell laughing in the face of

0:37.2

motherhood? This is Margaret.

0:38.8

And this is Amy. Today we're talking to Nicholas Epley. He is the John Templeton Keller

0:43.5

distinguished service professor of behavioral science and director of the Roman Family Center for Decision

0:48.9

Research at the University of Chicago Booth School of Business. Nick studies social cognition, how thinking people

0:56.2

think about other thinking people to understand why smart people so routinely misunderstand each other.

1:03.2

He is the author of Mind-wise, How We Understand What Others Think, Believe, Feel, and Want.

1:07.6

And Nick's latest book, which we'll be talking about today, is A Little More Social,

1:12.2

how small choices create unexpected happiness, health, and connection. Welcome, Nick. Thank you so much

1:18.0

for having me here. Big bio, Nick. We're expecting a lot from you. No pressure. It doesn't fit on the back

1:22.6

of the jersey very well. So you start this book with a paradox.

1:28.3

So let's start there.

1:29.3

Tell us about the paradox that starts this book.

1:31.3

So the paradox is that we're highly social creatures.

1:34.3

Decades of research has shown that we are made happier and healthier.

1:38.3

We live longer lives, when we're connected with other people in positive ways.

1:43.3

And yet, just look around a little bit, if you would.

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