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What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms

Fresh Take: Carla Ciccone, NOWHERE GIRL

What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms

What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood

Kids & Family, Comedy, Parenting

4.81K Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2025

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

What happens when you finally, as an adult, understand for the first time that your brain has been wired differently all along? Writer and mother Carla Ciccone joins Amy and Margaret to discuss her memoir NOWHERE GIRL: Life as a Member of ADHD’s Lost Generation. Together, they explore how ADHD in women often presents differently than the “hyperactive little boy” stereotype, and the lasting impact on many adult women with ADHD of having been undiagnosed for decades. Carla shares her journey through shame, perfectionism, and masking—and how diagnosis and self-acceptance have reshaped her life as both a woman and a mother. Key Topics Covered: Why ADHD in women is historically underdiagnosed Rejection sensitivity dysphoria and imposter syndrome Raising children with ADHD as a parent with ADHD If you’ve ever wondered why ADHD feels different for women—or why so many are diagnosed later in life—this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and community. Carla’s story will resonate with anyone navigating motherhood, identity, and the struggle to stop “performing life” and start living authentically. Here's where you can find Carla: www.carlaciccone.com @cciccone on IG Buy NOWHERE GIRL: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9780593729519 We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/ Get 50% Off Monarch Money, the all-in-one financial tool at ⁠www.monarchmoney.com/FRESH ADHD in women, late ADHD diagnosis, inattentive ADHD, hyperactive ADHD, ADHD masking, rejection sensitivity dysphoria, imposter syndrome ADHD, ADHD perfectionism, motherhood and ADHD, Carla Ciccone, Nowhere Girl memoir, ADHD and generational trauma, parenting with ADHD, ADHD emotional regulation, underdiagnosed ADHD in women Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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laughing in the face of motherhood? This is Margaret.

0:38.4

And this is Amy. Today we're going to be talking to Carla Chaconi. She is a Toronto-based freelance writer.

0:44.2

She's a mom. And the author of the book will be talking about today, Nowhere Girl, Life as a

0:49.3

member of ADHD's Lost Generation. Welcome, Carla. Hello. Hello. Thank you so much for having me.

0:55.9

So, Carla, the topic of this book is extremely timely because the percentage of women, ages 23 to 49,

1:02.5

who are newly diagnosed with ADHD as grownups, has nearly doubled over the last few years.

1:08.2

And you also had this experience. The book starts with you're being diagnosed

1:11.2

with ADHD at the age of 39. So tell us that story and how you got to that point. Yeah, so I was

1:16.5

diagnosed during the pandemic. And I think a lot of women were because we were all sort of trapped at

1:21.7

home without our usual day-to-day supports that we didn't know were even supports until they were gone.

1:28.9

That's well said, yeah. And also it kind of opened up access to therapy in a way that wasn't

1:35.6

like online therapy, right? So that's how I got diagnosed is I was very anxious. I had a two-year-old

1:41.5

at home. I was barely holding it together, barely sleeping, and I was like,

1:46.1

you know what? I think I should try therapy. I think maybe it's time. And the therapist, she didn't

1:51.0

know what I had was ADHD or the complex post-traumatic stress disorder or both. Was the

1:57.1

manifestation sort of the same? Yeah, the symptoms can be similar. Hypervigilance,

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