Freedom Without Fighting: The Secret to Outgrowing Porn

Dear Young Married Couple

Adam & Karissa King

Christianity, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 871 Ratings

🗓️ 11 November 2025

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

🔥 What if freedom from porn didn’t mean fighting harder, but growing deeper? Listen to Adam and his friend, Drew Boa, unpack why willpower alone never works and how emotional maturity, inner healing, and real connection lead to lasting change. What if your “struggle” isn’t about lust at all, but about loneliness, pain, and the little kid inside still waiting to be seen? Drew shares raw parts of his own story, how to recognize your triggers, and why emotional regulation (not just behavior management) is the missing link for true freedom. Resources: Counseling w/ Adam & Karissa https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/counseling Outgrow Porn by Drew Boa — outgrowporn.com Husband Material community and resources — husbandmaterial.com Stay in Conversation with Us IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Our sexual development was vandalized by the $100 billion industry of porn.
0:06.8	Yeah.
0:07.0	Truly a sexual predator.
0:08.4	We're wounded in relationship and we're healed in relationship.
0:12.8	It is so good to have my friend Drew Boa on the podcast.
0:18.0	Man, so thankful you could be here with us today.
0:23.4	Likewise. I always love hanging out with you and Carissa. Amen, man. We've had some good times and we're here talking about your new book,
0:32.4	Outgrow Porn, find lasting freedom without fighting and exhausting battle.
0:38.3	We both have it.
0:40.0	Yes.
0:40.6	And I am really excited.
0:42.3	I read the book.
0:43.4	It's fabulous.
0:45.4	And I can't wait to get into some of these areas.
0:48.4	But before that, for the audience who doesn't know you,
0:51.9	why don't you just tell us a little bit about your story
0:54.0	and what would
0:55.5	make you write such a countercultural book?
1:01.1	I was a kid who loved Jesus, hated porn, couldn't stop using it.
1:09.2	There was a very specific sexual fetish that I always focused on and searched for.
1:14.0	Never understood why.
1:16.1	And I got even a year of freedom before relapsing more than ever.
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