Freddie Shanel Gives The Long-Time Virgin Perspective | WHGS Ep. 301

We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71

Society & Culture, Comedy Interviews, Comedy

4.8 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 8 December 2025

⏱️ 78 minutes

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This episode is taking its time, listener! Freddie Shanel (they/them) is an absolutely hilarious up-and-coming comedian whose work you’ve seen on your TikTok feed or Reductress, but today they’re in the apartment to work on shedding their long-time gay virginity! We discuss being a late bloomer in queer sex, how awkward your first time can be, the appropriate grammatical usage of neo-pronouns, and how Freddie’s girlfriend has been a WHGS fan since DAY ONE! Ashley bangs a pure lesbian. Lizzy doesn’t come out to her family. FOLLOW FREDDIE SHANEL Tour Dates: https://www.freddieshanel.com/standup TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freddieshanel Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freddie.shanel1/ Twitter: https://x.com/freddie_shanel FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/o9r0i_LLpgk PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex HELLO FRESH: Get 10 FREE meals + FREE breakfast for LIFE at https://www.hellofresh.com/gay10fm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	I'm here to give the long time virgin perspective.
0:03.2	But yeah, I feel like when I did lose my virginity, there's this dominant narrative of like, if you're queer, like the first time you have sex with a woman will be like the most magical thing you've ever experienced. Like fireworks will appear in the sky and tears will run down your cheeks. And I feel like the first time I had sex with a woman was also just the first time I had sex. And so, of course, it was like awkward and strange and crazy.
0:22.6	Totally.
0:23.2	At the time time I had sex with a woman was also just the first time I had sex. And so, of course, it was like awkward and strange and crazy.
0:22.6	Totally. At the time when I was hooking up with this girl, and I was kind of like, yeah, nothing's really happening.
0:28.2	And she went, well, you have to try. Hey Bottom Nation.
0:43.6	It's tired.
0:45.3	It's tired out here, isn't it?
0:47.6	I know there's a lot going on,
0:49.7	and I'm very happy to hopefully be a place
0:53.2	where you can come and laugh and feel a little community.
0:56.6	I hope we're providing some warmth for you, some community.
1:01.3	So thank you for being here and making that possible.
1:03.6	We actually have a Discord community, which is really, really nice.
1:07.2	Oh, yeah.
1:07.7	So go check that out.
1:09.0	And then, of course course the ultimate best community,
1:12.6	a members only club. Woo! Patreon.com slash WHs for bonus episodes. We do a bonus with this
1:19.2	guest. We do bonuses with Jen. We do bonuses with the co-host. Alex, unfortunately, has to speak.
1:25.2	And we read your gay sex stories.
1:28.3	So yeah, that's a lot of fun.
1:29.3	And then today, up and comer, Freddie Chanel, you've probably seen them on TikTok, Instagram.
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