Francis & The Jealous Manipulative Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

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🗓️ 21 April 2025

⏱️ 102 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Francis shares the story of her abusive relationship with an intimidating jealous narcissist. The relationship was marked by infidelity, financial instability, emotional abuse, gaslighting, isolation, threats with weapons, minimization, suicide threats, rage, and stalking. Francis was diagnosed with PTSD and emphasizes the importance of recognizing red flags early, particularly in relationships and interactions with partners' families. Francis's story highlights the complexities and long-term impacts of domestic abuse. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses suicide threats, suicide attempts, suicidal ideation, threats of physical harm with weapons , and sexual coercion. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Francis,
0:08.5	and Francis was in a relationship with a manipulative narcissist.
0:12.2	It's a story of enmeshment, fear, jealousy, gaslighting, intimidation, and stalking.
0:48.6	Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Francis. How are you? I'm doing well. How are you today?
1:00.3	I am doing well. Thank you for asking. And if you want to be a guest like Francis is today,
1:06.9	please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Click on the guest form button at the top of the page.
1:11.6	There you can read all of our instructions, and please read them all and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press the
1:16.8	submit button and please do send it in the format that we ask for. And we do have a content
1:22.9	warning for this episode as we do discuss sexual coercion in this episode, as well as suicidal ideation,
1:29.8	threats, and attempts. And that is your content warning for today. And today you're going to hear
1:35.3	Francis's story. And Francis was in a relationship with someone who she could never really trust
1:40.7	from finances to cheating to just everything and you'll feel quite validated today
1:46.2	as she touches upon so many types of abuse that will resonate with you in some sort of way. So a big
1:52.2	thank you to Frances for being here with us today. I'm going to get it in my way and your way.
1:57.8	Frances, the floor is now yours. All right. Thank you for that. I guess to start
2:05.5	talking about my childhood, I had a pretty good childhood in general, but there were a lot of
2:13.3	different factors that I think impacted who I grew up to be and how I have let people treat me
2:22.4	in life. We grew up in a military household. My mom was very young when she had me. She was
2:28.9	only 17 and my dad was a little bit older. I guess I would call him an alcoholic, and it was pretty
2:37.8	volatile in the house. I remember moving around a lot. There were parties where I remember
2:45.0	being three and him letting me try a cigarette or his beer. And other things that would happen, he would go and empty the bank account when we got paid.
2:55.7	So my mom didn't have money for food for us.
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