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Forum from the Archives: What It’s Like to Parent With Your Friends

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Politics, News, News Commentary

4.6656 Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2025

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

NPR’s Rhaina Cohen has taken a close look at friend-powered parenting, joining shared households to see how neighbor-and-friend alliances can break the isolation of modern parenthood. We’ll talk about the challenges of communal living and what parents gain—emotionally, practically, even financially—when they raise their kids with their friends. Cohen’s recent piece for the Atlantic is “A Grand Experiment in Parenthood and Friendship.” Would you raise your kids with your best pals? Guests: Rhaina Cohen, producer and editor for the NPR Documentary podcast Embedded; author of "The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center" and the Atlantic piece, "A Grand Experiment in Parenthood and Friendship" Phil Levin, founder, Live Near Friends - helps people live right next door to friends and family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Journalist Raina Cohen has reported on and lived the experience of parents choosing to live with or next door to their friends.

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And she's written about what they've all gained, as well as the hurdles of communal living they've been willing to overcome.

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Her recent Atlantic

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piece is called A Grand Experiment in Parenthood and Friendship. We listen back to our conversation

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from last month, right after this news.

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Welcome to Forum. I'm Mina Kim. It's no secret that becoming a parent these days constrain friendships. It's hard to spend time with friends when you're navigating the

1:55.8

demands of parenthood or needing to find and pay babysitters. And on the flip side, it's hard

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for a non-parent

2:01.7

friend to lose the attention and closeness you once shared. Yet parenthood is probably the stage

2:07.3

in life when we need the support of our friends the most, says Raina Cohen, who has looked into

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and experienced what happens when parents decide to live with or next door to their friends

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and raise kids together.

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