So what I'm saying is if you plant all of these seeds throughout the day, throughout the evening,

when you're together, there's way less work in the traditional four-place sense because

you're all ready to go.

You're all amped up because you've been connecting.

You're listening to Sex with Emily.

I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation

around sex.

To lots of folks, four-play is shorthand for hand stuff.

But four-play is actually way more about emotional intelligence than anything having to do

with your fingers.

On today's show, I dive into the psychology of four-play and intimacy, a fascinating

study on the difference between a good and bad sex life, and how to get a rouse with

specific and quite sexy pre-game tips.

We talk about what to do with four-play and overall sex with your partner has gotten

a bit stale, how to tease and arouse yourself.

What to do if your partner isn't so keen on exploring new things and how to handle a

partner who won't reciprocate four-play.

After you give them all sorts of pre-game love, they don't reciprocate.

Plus I answer your questions.

I share what to do if you find yourself fantasizing about a past crush while in a committed

relationship and give tips for how to have an orgasm for the first time.

Alright, intentions with Emily join me in setting an intention for this episode.

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