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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Forcing Positive Thinking On Clients and Other Bad Therapists

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.51.3K Ratings

🗓️ 7 July 2023

⏱️ 82 minutes

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Summary

Dr Kirk Honda and Bob answer patron emails.

00:00 Positive thinking in therapy

10:41 Reporting a colleague

30:48 Unethical situations

40:41 Inpatient psychiatric facilities

48:57 Insurance audits

56:42 Exposure therapy & transference


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July 7, 2023

The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®


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0:00.0

So Bob emails what he's like. Yeah. Anonymous animal patron. She says, I had my new favorite worst

0:06.3

therapy session today. I've been shopping around for a while. So as a client, I think. Right.

0:13.0

So I had my new favorite worst therapy session today. I disclosed my borderline diagnosis.

0:18.9

And after asking a few diagnostic type questions from the therapist, she told me today

0:25.4

was the day I was going to make a life change via positive thinking and to just push away the

0:31.6

negativity. I told her I frequently, I frequently feel suicidal and get depressed. And she reiterated

0:38.0

that today was the day all of that was going to change through positive thinking.

0:42.9

Apparently she's been a therapist for over 20 years. And for 20 years, she's been about as

0:47.7

therapeutic as a reddit thread. Little does she know I've been listening to psychology and shadow

0:55.7

my entire adult life. And I'm not settling for that shit left LLMAO. Thanks for reading any thoughts

1:03.0

on that, Bob. Yeah. I'm the power of positive thinking now, not a fan. So yeah. Just based on what's

1:12.7

written here, I would not have continued that therapist or do you think they were coming from?

1:16.5

The just the sentence today is the day where you're changing. You know, that's just a little bit

1:21.8

cult of personality kind of forceful sort of blown smoke. You know, like, no, man, I don't, I think

1:29.0

of a little bit more humility is in order. Yeah. Yeah, I've met people in therapist included who

1:36.4

have this simplistic dogmatic belief that thinking positive will solve everything. Can thinking

1:44.5

positive help? Sure. Absolutely. Data shows that I can attest to that. Yeah. And can you have a

1:50.7

form of therapy that involves this? Yeah. There's versus a humanistic therapy, positive psychology

1:56.4

arguably is in this direction. But there's nothing good about any form of therapy and no, no

2:02.5

expert would recommend that you discount someone's experience, especially when they're pushing back

2:08.1

a little bit by just manhandling the client and saying like, well, you just need to think positive.

2:13.9

Essentially blaming the client. Yeah. It's very important for their problems and and simplifying

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