While researching for her book, For Women Only, Shanty Feldhan asked a group of men,

what's the one thing that you wish your wife knew?

The top answer, by far, that I got, was the one most important thing they wish their wife knew,

was how much I love her.

This is the Revivar Harse podcast with Nancy DeMoss Walgamuth, author of Choosing Forgiveness.

For February 4th, 2022, I'm Dana Gresh.

All week, Nancy DeMas Walgamuth has been talking with Shanti Feldhan, author of the classic book for women only.

Barbara Rainey has been joining in on those conversations as well.

When we first aired this interview some years back on Revive Our Hearts, listeners really responded enthusiastically.

They wanted to get a copy of this book to better understand the way men think.

Well, fast forward about 10 years, Enchante released a revised and updated edition of For Women Only.

Yesterday, she told us about some of that material. If you missed it, you can hear it at

Revive Our Hearts.com. Later today, we'll hear more from Shanti Feldhan about the new material in her book.

First, we'll hear from that classic interview between Nancy, Barbara, and Shanti, one of our

all-time most popular series. Now, we're going to put together here in this last

session a couple of insights that you gain, and it has to do with the concept that men are visual.

And again, that probably doesn't come as any great surprise, but some of the implications of that

were a surprise to you as you did this survey. Yeah, absolutely, because one of the things that I realized

is that I'd heard in premarital counseling and many other places that, you know, my husband was

visual and then I realized, I didn't know what that meant, really. And what does it mean?

Here's really what it means. And okay, ladies, you know, hold on to your seats here for a minute and

have an open mind as we talk about this because some of this can be a little hard to hear,

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