When husbands and wives don't connect, who's to blame? Here's author and speaker, Shanti Feldon.

For some reason, we've developed this inner, subtle feeling that, you know, we women are really the ones who are good at relationships.

And we women are really the ones who have the interpersonal skills. So if there's a problem, it's probably his fault. And he's just got to learn to

relate better. And when we unpack that, what that's actually saying is he's got to learn to

relate the same way we do. This is the Revive Our Hearts podcast with Nancy DeMoss Walgamuth,

author of Adorn. For January 31st, 2021, 2022, I'm Dana Gresh.

In 2005, Revive Our Hearts listeners first heard the series for women only.

The response to that series and the book by the same title was huge.

Today we'll revisit that original series that made such a big difference in the lives

of so many of our listeners.

Here's Nancy.

Do you ever find yourself wondering what in the world makes my husband tick? In fact, what makes men in general

tick? Our guest today has written a book called For Women Only, what you need to know about the

inner lives of men. Shanti Feldhan, welcome to Revive Our Hearts. It's great to be with you.

Also joining us today is my longtime friend, Barbara Rainey. And Barbara, thank you for joining us. And at kind of last minute notice, I asked you yesterday, would you be willing to come and join this conversation? Thanks for doing that. Last minute, but I'm honored to be here.

Barbara and I have known each other for a number of years, and Barbara is the wife of Dennis Rainey.

Now, let me just say, Shanti, when your book first came out, and one of my staff picked it up, and they showed me the book like this, Shanti Feldhan, it says at the top, for women only, what you need to know about the inner lives of men. And one of my staff women laughed, and she said, why in the world is a woman writing a book about the inner lives of men.

And one might ask that question. laughed and she said, why in the world is a woman writing a book about the inner lives of men?

And one might ask that question. We're not claiming here by any means as a trio of women to be experts on men, but you did some fascinating research that gave you some insights that I think

are going to be very helpful to women about how men think. How did you

stumble onto this project? Stumbling is probably the right word, Nancy, in all honesty. I actually

realized how little I understood about how men really think and feel when I had to write my last

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