Welcome to the rewire podcast. I'm your host, Ryan Stumann, and I'm here to rewire your mind for success.

You were put on this planet for success. You were created to succeed, but the force of average is after you every single day, my brothers and sisters.

And this podcast is the one thing that's designed to help you fight the force of average and excel in every

area of your life. We're glad that you're here. All right, this is a podcast for all the men out

there. And if you're a woman listening, cool, but don't send this to a dude. Don't send this to

your boyfriend or husband because he ain't going to take it the right way coming from you. He needs to

organically find this. What you need to do is you need to just hover over his phone and go Ryan's Duman, rewire podcast, rewire podcast with Ryan's Duman, hardcore closer podcast, right? And then his phone will pick me up, right? In some point, I'll drift through his news feed and hopefully he'll find this. Now, guys, listen up. If you want to be in a relationship long term with anybody, but we're going to talk about women

specifically, but if you want to be in a long term relationship with a woman, you have to give up

your right to be right. I can have an argument with Amy and most arguments are meaningless

and I can have an argument with her and it's easier

for me just to say you're right even if she's wrong even if my point's better it's easier

just to say you're right and move on because here's what I've learned if I'll admit that someone

else is if I'll just give someone else say you're right that's all they ever needed then I

continue on whatever the fuck I was doing in the first place. Anyway, I've learned that first of all. Second of all, most people are fighting for their right to be right. I am not fighting for a right to be right. I am fighting for a resolution. If I am in an argument with my spouse, if I am in a disagreement with my spouse. I am there to get a solution. I'm not there to win an argument. I'm not a lawyer.

This is not a court of law. This is our... am in a disagreement with my spouse, I am there to get a solution. I'm not there to win an

argument. I'm not a lawyer. This is not a court of law. This is our household. And I'm here to solve the problem that we are discussing to where we do not have that anymore. I'm not here to see who is right about the problem. That's insignificant to me. So I don't mind being like saying things like, you're right. And on top of that,

I think we could do this. Do you agree? Right. But that you're right shifts the whole mindset, especially of a women. Now, guys, you also have to understand this. I've been married four times. I haven't had a lot of girlfriends. I haven't had a lot of one nightstands. I'm not one of those kind of guy, so I can't say I've been with hundreds of women or anything like that, but I have

been married four times. And I can tell you, women do not subscribe to the giving up the right to be right. I'm going to explain something to you men. It's going to piss the female listeners off, but that doesn't mean that it's not true. Usually the truth pisses you off. See, us men, we are created genetically to be able to go out of the cave

into the fields back back in the day. usually the truth pisses you off. See, us men, we are created genetically to be able to go out of the

cave into the fields, back in back in the day, into the fields, kill something that used to have

life and then eat it. Cut it open, cut its guts out and eat it. I still do that today. In order to do

that, a man has to be able to compartmentalize certain emotions and certain thoughts.

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