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The Catholic Man Show

Focus on the Now: A Catholic Man’s Guide to Time, Prayer, and Sainthood

The Catholic Man Show

The Catholic Man Show

Leisure, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.8768 Ratings

🗓️ 12 March 2026

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

What is time for?

In this episode, Adam and David reflect on the gift of time through the lens of Catholic theology, fatherhood, prayer, suffering, work, and even Nick Saban’s famous process-driven mindset.

The conversation begins with updates on baby Mary and a moving reflection on the fragile beauty of life, suffering, healing, and hope. From there, the discussion turns toward a deeper meditation on time itself: how easily we waste it, how often we rush through it, and how every moment is a gift given by God.

Drawing from St. Augustine, St. Teresa of Avila, the Psalms, leisure, memory, mortality, and the demands of vocation, Adam and David explore what it means to live well in the present moment. They also connect this to Nick Saban’s practical framework of focusing on the now, controlling the controllables, and trusting the process over the outcome.

This episode is a call for Catholic men to stop drifting through life, stop living in regret or anxiety, and start receiving time as the arena in which God prepares us for eternity.

In this episode:

  1. An update on baby Mary and the power of prayer
  2. Why suffering, life, and death sharpen our awareness of time
  3. St. Augustine on the mystery of past, present, and future
  4. Why Catholic men must stop wasting the present moment
  5. Fatherhood, busyness, and the fear of missing what matters most
  6. Leisure as the wise use of time
  7. St. Teresa of Avila on growth in prayer
  8. How to stop rushing through life
  9. Nick Saban’s “focus on the now” mindset through a Catholic lens
  10. Control the controllables and trust the process
  11. Time, judgment, memory, and eternity

Key takeaway:

You cannot control the future. You cannot relive the past. But you can receive the present moment as a gift from God and use it for holiness.

Transcript

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0:00.0

I joined the club.

0:14.7

I did it.

0:17.0

And now no longer have a minivan.

0:21.2

It's like, we're talking about like echelons of clubs here.

0:25.6

I know, it feels good to be.

0:26.7

A lot of people are just trying to get into the minivan club,

0:29.9

and it's a noble, it's a noble collection of great men,

0:34.9

the minivan club.

0:37.0

Correct.

0:38.5

But sometimes you get called to the big leagues.

0:40.5

But the minivan is really a subculture of a bigger picture, if I may.

0:48.5

Please.

0:49.3

And then there's the full-size van.

0:51.8

And that's where I am now.

0:52.7

You're living a full-sized life, Adam. In a full-sized van. And that's where I am now. You're living a full-sized life, Adam.

0:54.7

In a full-size van.

0:56.0

Welcome.

0:57.1

Welcome to it.

0:58.7

Thank you.

0:59.7

It's funny that we both ended up getting almost the exact same van.

1:04.9

I know.

1:05.3

Almost at the exact same time.

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