Hello, hello everybody. Welcome back to another episode of Fluently Forward. Today we are having on Hannah, the libido fairy, and you cover content. You make incredible content online that I've just been pouring over these past couple of months all about women with low libido. But I also feel like what you do is kind of talk about like the psychology of

women interacting with sex and people pleasing and attachment styles and how all of this

kind of manifests in the bedroom. So welcome to the show. I'm so happy to have you on. Yeah,

thank you so much. I'm not that cool, but I just really appreciate the shoutout. So yeah, thanks for having me.

Well, you must hear this all the time, but I had seen one of your reels come across, I think, I don't know, Instagram or TikTok or something like that.

And the concepts that you talk about are something that I feel like, A, not enough people talk about, but B, because I have no boundaries.

I talk about everything with my friends.

Me and almost every single girl I'm friends with, we experience a lot of what you've talked about,

like the idea of not wanting to maybe initiate affection with your partner because you're afraid

it will lead to something more and you're going to have to follow through or not having

desire or feeling

like sex is a chore and then feeling ashamed and guilty that you think it's a chore and all

of that. So it seems like your journey is kind of similar to a lot of ours. How did you get started

with the libido fairy and like making all of this content? Yeah. I mean, you hit the nail on the

head in that I went through a very similar

journey to that. I backing up a lot of my initial sexual experiences were really negative.

My first relationship was very abusive. And then I, after getting out of that relationship,

learned that sex was this trading chip

that I could use to exchange for security and validation and approval and I could use my body

to get people like me. And it never even occurred to me that it could be something that was for my pleasure or something

I could enjoy. It was always something to endure and to trade. And the further I got into

relationships, the way that that manifested was I would have all of this desire at the beginning of the relationship

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