Hello, hello everybody. Welcome back to Fluently Fixed, where we fix your life 100% top to bottom,

taint to toe, everything that needs to be done. Let's dive right in. I think we got about five or six

ones that I have picked for today. And as always, go on over to the show notes or on Instagram

if you want to submit a query or quandary or problem of your own. So the first

answer or sorry response here. Hi Shannon. My boyfriend is wonderful and so sweet, et cetera,

et cetera, but something that's been bothering me lately is he doesn't always act gentlemanly. Like he

doesn't hold open the door for me. he doesn't honor ladies first, etc.

He's thoughtful in other ways, and I know that he cares about me, but I hate having to be like,

it's freezing and I forgot my jacket, you should be offering me yours, you know?

To be fair, he had a tumultuous upbringing, so I'm not surprised his parents didn't teach him this stuff,

but I feel like it's pretty basic etiquette that he's just oblivious to. Any advice on fluently fixing him without feeling like his mother.

This is a good write-in.

I feel like with other boyfriends in my past, I could totally have seen myself writing something

like this in.

And I have read so many books.

I'm so fascinated on like the difference between how men and women think, like all of

that, um, men are from Mars, women are from Venus, which by the way, that book by I think

John Green or John someone, unbelievable book.

Like I read it.

Sometimes Xander reads it.

We both come away from it, feeling so understood,

but then also so baffled by the other gender, but we always fall into these patterns. And one of the

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