Fixing Narcissism
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 18 March 2024
⏱️ 74 minutes
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00:00 Introducing the Adult Child podcast
03:36 What has Dr. Kirk covered recently?
05:20 Complex trauma in adulthood
13:59 Does Dr. Kirk do inner child work?
15:15 How was Dr. Kirk harmful in his early practice?
22:50 Is there a way to vet a trauma therapist?
25:25 What are common misconceptions about narcissism?
30:06 How many people have NPD?
35:01 Can personality disorders be improved?
41:53 How can you tell when someone is healing?
43:32 When does NPD develop?
49:48 What does couples work look like if someone has NPD?
54:41 A litmus test for your partner
1:00:30 Can couples therapy be effective without individual therapy?
1:03:27 What is it like for Dr. Kirk to interview family?
1:07:42 What is Dr. Kirk looking forward to covering soon?
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March 18, 2024
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| 0:00.0 | Hey Deservant Listeners, today's episode is an interview that I did about narcissistic personality disorder. |
| 0:06.0 | I was asked to come on the Adult Child Podcast hosted by Andrea Ashley and I after recording the interview thought that maybe y'all |
| 0:18.8 | would want to hear this because I think she asked questions that I don't normally think to address. |
| 0:26.5 | I think that she's coming from a real place of trying to understand it, |
| 0:32.3 | but also trying to understand how to use this information as a lay person when you're in a relationship with someone who appears narcissistic or is hurtful in some way or self-centered in some way or |
| 0:46.7 | doesn't listen to you or doesn't apologize. |
| 0:49.8 | What are you supposed to do with this information and how can we use these concepts to |
| 0:56.6 | understand and better our lives. So I think she was getting pretty practical |
| 1:01.6 | about the questions which which maybe I don't always have the opportunity |
| 1:07.3 | to know that's where people are coming from. |
| 1:09.7 | So let's just get to that interview.. This is the adult child podcast with Andrea Ashley |
| 1:16.6 | Welcome back to adult child where we take a deep dive into the impact of growing up in a dysfunctional family. |
| 1:23.0 | Ahoy, my dear shit shows, how is it going? |
| 1:26.9 | For any new listeners, my name is Andrea. |
| 1:29.2 | I am the captain of this Hot Mess ship. |
| 1:31.7 | I am a total shit show. I am also an adult child and you |
| 1:36.2 | should consider yourself pretty damn lucky if you were listening to these |
| 1:39.6 | words right now and no not because they're coming out of my mouth but because hopefully you've |
| 1:45.2 | come here because you've had the realization that your childhood is negatively impacting your life as an adult and you want to do something about that. |
| 1:57.0 | So today we are diving deep with returning guest Dr. Kirkhonda, so he is a psychotherapist. |
| 2:04.4 | He is the creator of the Psychology in Seattle YouTube channel, |
| 2:09.8 | where he covers a ton of psychology topics, but most importantly, he provides a psychological lens on a lot of reality TV shows, the reality TV shows that we all know and love like 90 day fiance. |
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