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The Hard Way With Joe De Sena

Fix Your Filter SPARTAN MIND ep 007

The Hard Way With Joe De Sena

Spartan Races

Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8874 Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2018

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

When presented with both positive and negative feedback, why is it that we tend to focus on the negative? Ninety-nine positive comments followed by a single negative one, can lead us feeling determined to zoom in on the one rather than relish in the glory of the ninety-nine. This is called Filtering and it's a common way of thinking that has the propensity to increase negative thoughts, decrease self-esteem, and exacerbate anxiety or depression. Recognizing when you are engaging in filtering and purposefully paying attention to the positive can help in preventing this mindset trap.

LESSONS:
Filtering occurs when we filter out the positive and bring in the negative.
Though some believe that focusing on the negative makes them stronger and better, it actually does the opposite, decreasing self-esteem and increasing negative thinking patterns.
When you catch yourself filtering, make an effort to bring in that which is positive as well. For each negative point that you focus on, try to focus on at least three positive ones.


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Host: Dr. Lara Pence
Synopsis: Dr. Lara Pence

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0:00.0

Welcome to Spartan Mind, the newest addition to the Spartan Up Podcast family. I'm Dr. L, Spartan's chief Mindoc.

0:07.0

I'm going to be here each Wednesday bringing you back to the couch to toughen up your mind to get you super uncomfortable, working you through a little internal barbed wire so that you can increase your physical execution and your performance in life.

0:20.0

So keep listening to the Spartan Up podcast that you're used to on Tuesdays.

0:24.4

You'll find me here on Wednesdays and Spartan Way habits on Thursdays.

0:28.6

Now that's a trifecta. factor.

0:35.0

Hey Spartans, today we're talking about filtering.

0:39.0

Filtering is one of those mindset traps that we all have a tendency to fall into.

0:46.0

And really what filtering is is filtering out the positive and focusing in on the negative. And we all

0:54.0

all struggle with this from time to time sometimes just where we filter

0:57.0

is different from person to person.

0:59.0

And the reason why it's important to talk about

1:01.0

filtering is because filtering can really

1:03.8

decrease our confidence and lower our self-esteem. Now a lot of people

1:08.3

actually filter on purpose because they feel like focusing in on the

1:12.4

negative is going to motivate them to do

1:14.4

better and keep them in check. But I can tell you right now that we're actually not

1:17.7

very good at that. Filtering, as we know from data, really doesn't make us

1:22.0

feel very good about ourselves.

1:24.0

So here's an example of filtering, one that I know I've fallen into and maybe you have to.

1:29.0

You present a project to somebody and nearly everybody in the room afterwards comes up to you and says

1:35.1

that was so great, oh my gosh I loved it, you were so funny here or that was so smart, I never

1:40.4

would have thought of that. But then you've got that one person who comes up to you afterwards and points out something that just feels a little negative, like a little thorny.

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