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How does it make you feel when I say this word conflict? Now for many of us, we

want to run and hide. For a select few though, it may sound kind of fun. Like

let's have it. Let's bring it on. Now in marriage, you're going to encounter at

some point, some conflict. So it's best to know how you deal with it and to get

it on the table early on. I'm John Fuller in the studio with Greg and Erin

Somali. They are professional counselors, speakers, writers. They lead our

marriage team here at Focus. And Greg, if I'm not mistaken, it was just the last

episode where you made this kind of timid admission that you're conflict

avoidant. And I'm joking with you on that because you've been very clear. I

don't like conflict. And there are many many of us men in particular, but a lot

of women too, saying, yeah, we don't like it either. So what's that about? I mean,

how do you feel when I say conflict? Very uncomfortable. So I prefer you not

even to utter the words. Okay. My mouth starts to dry up. I can use it with

an isn't for it. Yeah. Well, it's not like I'm over here jumping up and down

when I hear the word conflict. So you're not ready to go. But no, but I know

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