Fire Up Your Fantasies w/ Elle Chase

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 6.8K Ratings

🗓️ 18 February 2022

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those people who’s like: “I don’t know how to fantasize, Emily?” Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits. Plus, we take your questions! How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it), what to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross, how to talk about your kink to a new partner and much more. For More Elle Chase: Website | Twitter | Instagram | Facebook Elle’s Naughty Coloring Book | Curvy Girl Sex by Elle Chase | Elle’s Fantasy Course Show Notes: Tell Me What You Want by Justin Lehmiller Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski The Yes No Maybe List We Vibe Toys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Having a media chemistry is not always a tell-tale sign.
0:08.0	The chemistry can grow and you have to really enjoy being with the person.
0:13.5	And if you're just not attracted to them, you can't ever see being attracted to them.
0:16.9	That's one thing.
0:17.9	But if you're like, yeah, they're really nice.
0:19.8	I really enjoy being with them.
0:20.9	I'll try a second date.
0:21.9	I don't feel like chemistry, but I'll try a second date.
0:24.3	And I used to have this thing where it was like a three-day rule.
0:27.3	You go on a date with someone that you like for three dates and if you still about the
0:30.8	chemistry, then...
0:31.8	Okay.
0:32.8	Done.
0:33.8	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:36.3	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation
0:41.5	around sex.
0:43.7	Sexual fantasies.
0:44.7	What are they all about?
0:45.7	Well, they give us a window into what we need.
0:48.7	Maybe it's a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person.
0:53.5	But what if you're one of those people who was like, I don't know how to fantasize Emily?
0:58.1	I don't have any fantasies.
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