When you are pioneering anything or introducing new ideas to the culture, you get

criticized. You do? Yeah, did you hear about that? I didn't find the one.

I found someone I respected, and we made it the one.

In the sort of longing kind of view of love,

people understand each other as if by magic.

Nothing itself is addictive on one hand.

And on the other hand, everything could be addictive

if there's an emptiness in that person that needs to be filled.

I now know that nobody changes until they change their energy and when you change your energy you change your life.

I'm Gwyneth Peltro. This is the Goop, bringing together thought leaders, culture

changers, creatives, founders and CEOs, scientists, doctors, healers, and

seekers. Here to start conversations, because simply asking questions and listening has the

power to change the way we see the world.

Here we go.

My guest today is Amy nole Messing. Amy is an author, a sought after dating coach, and the founder of Love

Amy, a service where she helps people build their online dating strategy.

In our conversation, we explored Amy's path to becoming a dating coach and how to create a

dating strategy based on core values and intentions.

What I found particularly intriguing about Amy's approach

is that it goes beyond providing tactical advice

and asks, why haven't you healed?

What are you projecting onto others?

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