Finding The Sweet Spot Between Pursuing Too Much & Not Enough So She’s Crazy For You!
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 28 February 2025
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos, full viewer questions podcasts & The 3% Man & Mastering Yourself Study Group Podcasts with the girls where we discuss the content of both books in depth:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeHow to find the sweet spot between pursuing too much & not enough so she’s crazy for you.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email success story from a viewer who has read 3% Man, 10 times. He’s with a woman who knocks his socks off. However, he’s really struggling to maintain his composure and emotional self control. He asks how to maintain her high interest and keep her attracted and in love.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:http://bit.ly/CCW3ManHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:http://bit.ly/CCWMYHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter. |
| 0:04.5 | And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be finding this sweet spot between pursuing too much and not enough, so she's crazy for you. |
| 0:14.7 | Well, this particular email is actually a success story, and so this guy's read 3% Man 10 times. |
| 0:20.4 | And if you're new here, you can read |
| 0:22.2 | it at Understanding Relationships.com for free. Just subscribe to the email newsletter, and it'll |
| 0:26.9 | open up right in your web browser. So, this particular guy, he's with a woman, she knocks |
| 0:34.9 | his socks off. However, the thing that he's still struggling with is maintaining his composure and emotional self-control. |
| 0:42.9 | And so even though things are going really well, he's like in the past when he's been kind of mediocrely interested in women, he like does everything right. |
| 0:53.5 | But when he's where the girl he really cares about, like this one, it's extremely hard. |
| 0:58.4 | And you'll see he really struggles with it. |
| 1:00.8 | Sometimes just wait in a few days to hear back from her or to hold out or try to outweigh her. |
| 1:06.6 | So she reaches out first is extremely nerve-wracking. |
| 1:10.0 | And it was for me when I first started doing it, |
| 1:12.6 | and for any guy that does this, |
| 1:14.6 | because your natural urge and instinct is, |
| 1:17.6 | I gotta do something, I gotta fix this, I gotta get her like me, |
| 1:21.6 | I gotta get her attention. |
| 1:22.6 | And the illusion of action causes you to do and say things and chase and pursue, and it interrupts |
| 1:29.3 | her feelings growing for you, because women need time and space away from you to wonder about |
| 1:35.3 | you, to think about you, to miss you for their feelings to grow. |
| 1:40.3 | And if you're pursuing too much or you have a hard time exercising self-control and you're constantly seeking your approval, constantly trying to find out where you stand with her, is she still interested, does she still love you as much as she did last weekend, that kind of thing, women can pick up on it. |
| 1:57.1 | And they're most attracted to confidence in guys. |
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