Hey, we're so glad you're here because today on Pastor Rick's Daily Hope, Rick's sharing the biblical

wisdom we need to have great relationships. And let's admit it, we can all use that. Okay, here's Pastor

Rick Warren with the final part of a message called Finding the Love of Your Life. Number five, whoever I marry must not be

selfish. Not selfish. Why? Proverbs 28, 25 says this, selfish people cause trouble. Would you circle that, start, underline it, put a arrow toward it, a Reno sign, you know,

pointing, you know, selfish people cause trouble.

So you just look in your dating, does he ever open the door for you?

Do they only talk about themselves when you're together? You know, when somebody talks about themselves a day, sometimes that's fascinating. It's kind of cute.

It's kind of interesting. After you get married, it wears off real quick. Can you talk about

something else besides your hair or your car or your dream or,

can you talk about anything else? The Bible says selfish people cause trouble. The number one cause of conflict in marriage. When you boil it all down, how do you keep conflict out of

marriage? Simple. Give rid of selfishness. Conflict comes because I want what I want, you want,

you want, we're both selfish and neither one of us are willing to budge. It's immaturity. It's selfish.

And the more unselfish I am, then the more we're going to get along, the more unselfish you're

going to be because it responds back to each other. Don't go with an unselfish, with a selfish man.

Proverbs 18, verse 1. people who do not get along with others

are only interested in themselves.

They will disagree with what everyone else knows is right.

Don't point at them right now, please.

People who don't get along with others, are only interested themselves,

I disagree with everybody who knows.

They make their living by being opposite.

Don't selfish.

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