She lived in Vancouver and she had divorced a number years before that and she found herself going on a blind date which she never imagined she'd ever do and she's at home and she's at home and she found herself getting into a dress and putting makeup on even though she hadn't worn makeup for probably the previous

8 or 9 months and going to this

Going to this restaurant and then meeting this guy and I don't know how they

figure this out I mean I'm in admiration of this in some respects they found out

within the first 10 minutes and they named it within each other with between

each other hey listen there's no chemistry there's nothing else going on here and that's

fine but let's just enjoy the rest of the dinner. And it wasn't until they named that did they get

into who they are as individuals.

And she just turned around.

He said, so I'm like, you know, I prefer women

who don't wear makeup, for example,

and she goes, oh my God, you're kidding me.

She said, I just put on makeup

because I thought that's the thing I should do.

And I hate wearing makeup, and I haven't worn makeup

for like, you know, eight or nine months or whatever it was

and don't want to wear it for the next eight or nine months.

And it was almost they did, they had dressed up,

got into their armor to go and do battle, to go and impress and it turns out that neither

of them they were both posturing and they think we are so consumed is the word I would

use consumed by what people think.

And I with respect to anybody who's listening to says,

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