Hi, besties, and welcome to a brand new almost adulting. I'm your host and your big sister and your bestie, Vialeta. So you're Russian bestie. That's why I said it with an accent. I thought today's episode can be just a quick debrief of my dating life. Just so we can catch up. I didn't want this to be another episode where I teach

you something. I thought it could be a chill episode since it's already coming out late. My bad,

by the way, it's 1.30 a.m. right now. I'm sitting in bed in the dark recording this episode.

I just got back from vacation from Jackson Hall with my family. It was such a beautiful house, but I'm not going to lie,

I'm pretty sure I fought, well, not fought, but argued with every single member of my family. I mean,

is that even a family vacation if you don't fight with each other at least once? Anyway, so I recently

decided to get back into dating.

I have not dated in a minute.

Well, I guess technically I dated like two months ago.

But I haven't liked anyone in two years.

And I haven't slept with anyone in two years.

And the crazy part when it comes to sex is that people think that I'm a prude because

I wait to sleep with someone and I haven't slept with

anyone in two years when in reality I love sex I masturbate all the time I love coming

sorry this is not what that's supposed to be about I just started talking about that no but that's a

truth so if anything I think I should get an award like Like people like us should get a reward, some type of award.

I mean, like, do you know what kind of self-control I need to have to love sex so much?

I value sex in a relationship so much.

And yet, I don't go around sleeping around. I just masturbate all the time because I'm waiting for the right partner that I want to share my body with. But yeah, that's a crazy part. I have so much self-control in order not to do that. But anyway, I digress. I don't know why I'm, this is what I'm talking about. Like, I think about sex all the time. I really need to get late. Oh my God. So anyway, the dating. So I decided to start dating, get back into dating two weeks ago. So first was what I did was I signed up on Hinge. That was the first step. And I know if you're saying, V, why not Raya? Let me tell you something about Raya. And please don't call me on this.

Please don't tell my friend that I said this. My friend owns the app. He's amazing. I love him.

But the app itself, it's not for dating. Like people try so hard to get on that app Raya, but you literally

end up matching with people who live in Croatia, Portugal, London. Like, I'm looking for a partner and it feels like being

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