Finding My Husband: American Meets Russian Standards - Vegas Part 1
Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
Violet Benson
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🗓️ 9 October 2025
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
It was supposed to be a romantic Vegas trip… until I got hemorrhoids, threw up in a $900 suite, did shrooms (allegedly), and had second thoughts about Bookman.
Why? Because this man did the unthinkable… he texted back, planned dates, opened doors, used empathy, and was willing to change. Is this too good to be true… or have I met my match? You tell me.
Welcome to Part 1 of Finding My Husband: Vegas - where romance meets chaos, Russian standards meet American men, and emotionally stable men are the new red flag. I said what I said.
(dating podcast • Vegas trip chaos • attachment theory • love bomber or match • relationship overthinking • female hosted podcast)
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| 0:00.0 | I'm disgusted. No, appalled. I'm appalled. Actually, scratch that. I'm nauseated, flabbergasted, and quite frankly, I'm emotionally disturbed by this man's behavior. Bookman has been out here committing unspeakable acts of consistency. This man texts me every morning before he goes to work, |
| 0:23.6 | checks in on me during work, |
| 0:25.6 | texts me when he finishes work, |
| 0:27.6 | always tells me what he's up to, always being so attentive, |
| 0:30.6 | always, you know, checking in with me, |
| 0:33.6 | letting me know how he feels, |
| 0:35.6 | always being so gentle with my feelings, opens doors, |
| 0:39.3 | plans real dates, never stops doing that, uses tone in his voice, like soft tone that implies |
| 0:44.4 | emotional safety. I mean, what's next? Empathy, accountability? I'm sick in besties by the sheer |
| 0:51.3 | audacity of his emotional maturity. I mean, the disrespect. The disrespect of being treated this well. It's revolting. There has to be some type of manipulation here that I'm just not saying. You know what I'm saying? Like, I'm trying to make me feel so safe. I mean, it's criminal. What's your end game here, buddy? Because I'm on to you. I'm on to you. You're up to |
| 1:12.3 | something. I see you. You're doing something. I don't know what it is yet, but I want you to know |
| 1:18.5 | that I'm on to you. And I'm suing. I don't know who I'm suing, but I'm suing somebody. |
| 1:23.4 | It's Vila Benson, your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for, but |
| 1:27.6 | Zita, welcome to Almost Adolting. |
| 1:35.5 | Are you ready? |
| 1:36.5 | Hi, Besties, and welcome to a brand new, Almost Adolting, the largest self-love podcast and |
| 1:41.4 | movement, your number one destination for personal growth, |
| 1:44.6 | mental health, everything in between. |
| 1:45.9 | And today I'm bringing back this series |
| 1:47.9 | that you have told me how much you've loved listening to. |
| 1:51.3 | It's so sweet. |
| 1:52.4 | Not only do you DM me telling me how much you love |
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