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There are statistics that suggest that many many people in the church are

struggling with the secret addiction to pornography. That's a sobering reality

for all who claim the name of Christ and something that will harm your marriage

if you don't deal with it. I'm John Foller along with the couple who lead our

marriage department Aaron and Greg Smolley and Dave and Kirsten Samuel our

former colleagues they used to work here at Focus many years ago and they had

this issue in their relationship. In a previous episode Dave shared about the

time that he confessed his addiction to pornography to Kirsten and here they

are now with Jim Daley. The moment again Kirsten were you feeling that

forgiveness or you were you were in that angry mode. Oh I was I was totally I was

I was in shock and then I was angry and I went between shock and anger and

and you know in feeling like I don't who is this guy. This is not who I thought I

married. Right and I I think I just wanted to explore that a little because of

the spouse that this may have happened to or it will happen to. It's completely

natural. It's normal to feel those things and they shouldn't feel guilty for

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