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Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Finding Forgiveness: Let Go of Unhealthy Feelings, Create Closure, and Move On | Happiness | LHS Classic

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

YAP Media Network | Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.7 • 890 Ratings

🗓️ 1 January 2026

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Is anger, regret or sadness still tying you to your past? In this episode, you’ll learn how finding forgiveness helps you heal unhealthy emotions, create closure, and move on. You’ll learn about the two types of forgiveness and how to shift your mindset so you can finally feel happier, freer, and more like yourself again. If happiness and well-being feel out of reach right now, I hope you dive into this one. Forgiveness often sounds simple, but it can feel deeply challenging when anger, regret, or unresolved pain linger. I’m revisiting this episode because these unhealthy feelings tend to hold on quietly, shaping how we feel long after the moment has passed. In this conversation, I talk about what forgiveness really is and what it is not, and how finding forgiveness can support healing and closure without excusing harm or abandoning your boundaries. We explore the difference between forgiving yourself and forgiving someone else, especially when there has been no apology, no repair, or no justice. You’ll hear how to work with difficult emotions like sadness and resentment, how to move on when the other person may never change, and how forgiveness can support your growth, well-being, and peace of mind. If part of you feels like you should be over it by now, but something still feels unfinished, this episode offers a more compassionate way forward. Forgiveness is not about forgetting or minimizing what happened. It’s about releasing what no longer serves you so you can heal and feel happier in your life today. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Finding Forgiveness and Emotional Healing 03:25 The Two Types of Forgiveness: Yourself and Others 05:52 How Anger, Regret, and Guilt Impact Happiness 07:56 Self-Forgiveness Through Compassion and Growth 15:00 Making Amends and Repairing Harm 21:59 How to Forgive Someone Who Isn’t Sorry 24:19 Letting Go Without Excusing Harm 28:56 Forgiveness, Boundaries, and Emotional Safety 31:19 Choosing Forgiveness to Move On and Feel at Peace If this conversation about finding forgiveness stirred something tender for you, I want you to know you don’t have to work through it alone. I’d love for you to schedule a free consultation with me or someone on my team at Growing Self. It’s a private, secure space to share what you’ve been carrying and get matched with the right counselor or coach for where you are right now. You’ll answer three quick questions, and we’ll help you take a thoughtful next step toward healing and clarity. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self Special thanks to this month’s sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast: Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts. Working Genius — A powerful assessment that helps entrepreneurs and leaders focus on what they naturally do best. Get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.com

Transcript

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0:00.0

This is Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and you're listening to the Love, Happiness, and Success

0:11.6

podcast.

0:14.4

It's all your feeling is covered up in a eye. It eyes Said all those worlds

0:23.6

Tend to suffocate

0:27.6

Bring your worst

0:32.6

Made from purest hate

0:36.6

I'm careful if you trip there

0:42.3

Comes the famous fog And the beautiful song is the amazing with their song, The Fog, from their 2012 release,

1:01.2

Gentle Stream. Good stuff. I thought that was a nice segue in today's topic. Today we are going to be talking about forgiveness. It is just something that's

1:15.1

been coming up a lot lately. I have had questions about it on the website. It's been coming up

1:20.9

in sessions and in conversations. So I figured it would be a good time to talk about forgiveness in case it's something

1:29.0

that's been on your mind as well. And so if this is your first time listening to the love,

1:35.7

happiness, and success podcast, this is what we do. I am Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby. My background is as a

1:42.8

marriage and family therapist. I'm a life coach. I'm also

1:45.5

trained as a psychologist. And we talk about stuff that might be on your mind. Everything on the show

1:51.7

is all about how to help you have better relationships, feel happier, or feel like you're more

1:58.6

successful in your life. And our topics range from everything

2:02.4

from, you know, marriage. Last week you talked about blended families. Next week, I'm interviewing

2:10.5

a really smart addictions counselor to help you tell the difference whether or not your drinking is just all fun

2:19.8

and good and recreational or whether or not you might have a problem. So if that is something

2:24.7

that is of concern to you, you'll definitely want to check out next week's show. But that's what

2:28.8

we do here is just talk about things that are hopefully important to you. I make all these podcasts pretty much

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