Financial Therapy: A Secret Gambling Addiction

Death, Sex & Money

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Business, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Careers, Relationships, Sexuality

4.6 • 7.6K Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2021

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

In the first of three financial therapy sessions, a couple we're calling Cora and Garrett talk with therapist Amanda Clayman about the events that led to a breakdown of financial trust between them.

Financial Therapy with Amanda Clayman is a special series from Death, Sex & Money. Listen to past episodes at deathsexmoney.org/financialtherapy.

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0:00.0	This is financial therapy from Death, Sex, and Money.
0:04.0	It did not fit into my narrative for my life or how it could go.
0:08.0	That I would have a husband who would gamble.
0:10.0	Like that just didn't even occur to me as a possibility, you know?
0:14.0	I felt that I just really let core down.
0:17.0	And I wasn't in a good place with my professional life
0:20.0	because everything was as been and was so uncertain at the time
0:24.0	that it was like I don't have a purpose.
0:26.0	And I'm also like a, you know, I'm an addict like this sucks.
0:30.0	I'm Anna Seo.
0:34.0	Late last year, we got an email from a listener we're calling Kora.
0:38.0	My husband and I recently hit a pretty intense rough patch
0:42.0	regarding our financial life, mental health, and the trust and our relationship in general.
0:46.0	It's brought about a lot of important growth for both of us, but at great expense,
0:50.0	literally and figuratively.
0:52.0	Kora is 26. She lives near Detroit with her husband.
0:56.0	And that rough patch she mentioned, it was really rough.
1:00.0	Kora and her husband, whom we're calling Garrett, both struggled to find work during the pandemic.
1:06.0	Then Garrett secretly got into online gambling, ended up deeply in debt, and tried to kill himself.
1:12.0	And just a heads up, we will be talking more about that later on.
1:16.0	I want to emphasize here, this whole series is about the importance of getting help.
1:20.0	When you are struggling with your mental health.
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