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As some final closing advice on this topic,

what would you say to all of us actually,

those married and those not married?

Masha, la.

Firstly, try to be the person whom you want to marry.

Sounds strange, doesn't it?

Try to be the person in character and conduct whom you would like to see or the characteristics

you have that you would like to see in a person you want to marry.

So if you're just going to be, I give you an example.

Yesterday someone sent me an email to say,

they were so interested in a guy and he just cut them off and they please make duah I really want to marry this guy and so so and I sent a reply saying

That you want a guy like him, but he doesn't want a person like you

It's clear so all you have to do is develop yourself to a point where a person like that would actually want a person like you

You know, it's it's one of those things. One of the brothers told me that I went to propose to someone, religious person, really amazing and so much more and I met them. I was quite interested and I called for a second meeting after the first one went very well

and I had one request to say please can I see you

without makeup you won't believe it ended there and and that's why I say it cut there. The microphone cut even before I got to that. Can you imagine? Anyway.

So when it came to me I was very saddened because imagine the brothers had to put makeup and a sister,

imagine it was the other way around and men wore makeup.

And a sister came up and said,

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