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Fighting Bitterness

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John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 12 September 2013

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Bitterness flows from a heart that feels the pain of injustice. Forgiveness flows from a heart overcome by trust in God’s justice.

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0:00.0

Here's a question we have received from a few different listeners recently.

0:08.2

They're asking this, Pastor John, how can I fight bitterness in my life?

0:12.9

Well, that's not a foreign question to me.

0:16.9

Bitterness is usually owing to a deep wrong we've experienced, or lots of them, or even

0:26.0

most painfully the same one done over and over and over again.

0:33.4

And it's intensified usually by the fact that nobody really knows the depths of this besides

0:41.3

you.

0:43.3

And therefore the sense of injustice grows if people only knew and you can't tell them

0:50.1

for various reasons.

0:53.4

And so it gets deeper and deeper from frustration and disappointment to anger, outbursts, to

1:02.8

settled, deep, long-term bitterness.

1:08.1

And God really knows about this, and he really wants to help us with this.

1:14.7

And there are four amazing things he tells us to embrace and believe and ponder in order

1:21.4

to fight this.

1:24.5

And here's number one.

1:27.3

Let us sink in, and by the way, all of these depend on God.

1:32.4

God makes all the difference here.

1:34.8

You can't manage bitterness successfully without God, because even if you decided, okay,

1:43.7

I'm settling all accounts in this world on my own, you wouldn't be able to do it.

1:49.4

They'd slap you in jail, or something would go wrong, you can't do it.

1:54.2

We cannot settle the accounts of those who've wronged us in this world.

2:00.4

If there's no God, there's no solution to bitterness.

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