What's going on everybody?

It's your boy camp sitting here with my lovely wife, Vicky, and we are your host for the podcast.

Everything is we.

And we're back at it again with another episode.

Today, Vicki says you're just going to come along for the ride.

So I was listening to some individuals, John and Lisa Bavir.

They're very powerful in the faith.

And they were talking about five lessons that they learned in 39 years of marriage.

And one particular lesson stuck out to me very strongly.

And they said,

when they get into these moments of intense fellowship

or they have disagreements,

they come from,

they come from backgrounds where it's easy for them to attack the person

but what they've learned which was one of their keys was to attack the problem attack the issue

attack your dog no i'm just kidding attack the thing and not the person so what i've learned

when the issues of life come at you fast come at your rent come at your marriage come at your

relationship it's important to understand this is not just it's not even just in in marriages

right if you are This is not just, it's not even just in marriages, right?

If you are going to have a disagreement, it's kind of like what you were talking about.

Attack the issue, not the problem.

I mean, attack, attack the issue, not the person.

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