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I was a mom of two and it was a mom of two and it was a extremely busy life and my husband and I had toyed with the idea of three.

It wasn't something that we were discussing at that exact moment,

but my little 50 Shades of Grey baby happened.

My name is Farah, I live in Atlanta,

and I am a very big fan of 50 Shades of Grey.

I mean, I read those books,

we were having a lot of sex.

So it just kind of reignited that sexual being that I think we all are and it almost gave me license to be like oh I remember who this person is. I'm going to revisit her. And I was fine with my husband.

And then one day I said to my husband, like, I think I'm pregnant.

And he said, you probably are.

So that's pretty much was the story we also told at her baby naming.

We are in our temple.

All of our family and friends are there.

I mean, there are 100 people there, maybe more, And we're in this beautiful chapel and we're

talking about you know the miracle of life and what her name means and all these you know spiritual things and my

husband gives a speech and he's known to be extremely dry and witty and during his speech he says you know we're so lucky she was so beautiful and then

he brings out we all know that my youngest daughter's the 50 Shades of Grey Baby,

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