FFN 084: Be The Patriarch
Order of Man
Ryan Michler
4.8 • 9.1K Ratings
🗓️ 1 December 2017
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
The other day, I had made a comment in our Facebook Group about being a Patriarch. Someone suggested I put that phrase on a shirt but I thought it would be better to explain it here.
Very simply, a Patriarch is the male leader of a family. It's becoming painfully obvious that we are lacking male leadership in the home. Divorce rates are on the rise as they have been for some time and the amount of young boys and girls who are growing up without fathers is scary to even think about.
And, I don't even think we've begun to see the fallout from the leaderless homes. Already, we see young boys and girls confused about their gender, we see violence, addiction, and the fact that the sexual misconduct perpetuated by men is seemingly climbing. I can't help but think that a lot of these problems could be addressed by worthy and honorable male leadership in the home.
I don't think all of this would go away but if more men would lead their families the way they're meant to be led, much of the negativity we see in society today would dwindle.
I want to be really clear here. I know there are situations in which the mother is responsible for leading the home. Maybe dad is out of the picture for whatever reason. But, regardless, a man's influence in the home cannot be replicated.
Men and women are different. Where women are great in certain areas, men fall short. And, where men are great in certain areas, women fall short. This is why it is so crucial that there be both a masculine and feminine presence in the home.
Specifically, I want to talk about the masculine presence in the home because that's where we as a society seem to be falling short.
Look, if you're a father and/or a husband, your job is to lead. Period. You are designed to lead. You were born to lead. And, what's really fascinating is that the majority of women I talk with who tune into what we're doing here are craving men who lead with honor, strength, and integrity.
So today, of all the factors that make you and I the Patriarchs of the family we've been called to be, I want to talk with you about three specifically.
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| 0:00.0 | You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. |
| 0:02.9 | Embrace your fears and boldly charge your own path. |
| 0:05.8 | When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time. |
| 0:09.3 | Every time you are not easily deterred and defeated. |
| 0:12.6 | Rugged, resilient, strong. |
| 0:15.4 | This is your life. This is who you are. |
| 0:18.0 | This is who you will become. |
| 0:19.6 | At the end of the day and after all is said and done, |
| 0:22.7 | you can call yourself a man. |
| 0:24.9 | Gentlemen, what is going on today? |
| 0:26.4 | I hope all is going well. |
| 0:27.8 | My name is Ryan Mickler and I am the host and the founder of this podcast, The Order of Man. |
| 0:33.4 | This is a show about becoming a better man in every facet of your life, your home, your |
| 0:38.2 | business, your community, everywhere that you have a responsibility to show up. |
| 0:42.1 | We're interviewing the world's most successful men. |
| 0:44.7 | We're sharing those conversations with you. |
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| 0:50.7 | Now, if you are new, you might not know that this show, |
| 0:54.0 | our Friday show, is a little different because you get to listen to just me talk about some |
| 0:58.6 | things I've been thinking about from throughout the week. |
| 1:00.9 | But before I get into today's topic, I do want to let you know that I have a new book |
| 1:05.3 | coming out in February. |
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