From a relaxing coffee by the Sen to a glowing sunset in Montego Bay,

from beautiful cherry blossoms in Tokyo to the stunning architecture of Abu Dhabi,

from the thriving souks of Marrakesh to Paradise Beach in Koss.

Everywhere we go makes us everything we are.

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Hello my lovely betwixters it's me Kailister I am here once more with you to protect

you from what is coming your way on this podcast this is the fair dues warning this is an adult podcast book my adults to other adults about

adulty things in an adulty way covering a range of adult subjects and you should

be an adult too and for the adults in the room while I've got you here if you wouldn't mind just taking a couple of seconds out of your terribly busy day to subscribe to this podcast

wherever you happen to be listening to it that really really would help

us out an awful lot right on with the show Welcome betwixters. You may be wondering why the lights are low. You may be wondering what that

throne in the corner is all about. No, no, we haven't broken into Buckingham

Palace. Not yet, anyway. We are in the dungeon of a dominatrix and there are far more important

things happening here.

And a crucial part of what goes on here is of course the outfits.

From lethal heels to latex zipped up tight, the clothing is as much about BDSM and power as the

whips or a St George's cross. And if you don't know what that one is, don't be

looking up and blaming me. The outfits are fantastic but it's not

exactly something that you'd kick back and wear in front of the telly. I mean I say

that but I think that that's exactly the point, right? It's theatre, it's performance. This all comes together to create a mood, a vibe. But what are the origins of these outfits? How are they used? Why are they used? What do they mean to the people who wear them? We'll stick

around and we are going to find out.

What do you look for a man? Oh, money, of close.

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