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Today, we have a question about femininity and whether or not femininity is a weakness.

So I want you to go ahead and sit back, relax, and let's talk about this.

Hi, Dr. Michelle.

I was wondering how to accept my femininity and be proud of it.

I've been struggling with this for someone who has come to realize that society often views women as weak and who has recently been removed from an emotionally abusive home. I'm 15 and I have trouble with confidence because of that.

I've gone through phases where I have prevented myself from

owning anything pink or anything considered girly because I knew that I wasn't weak, but strong,

and I don't want society to think that I was weak. I want to accept my femininity and express myself

without being worried about what anyone else thinks of me. Do you have any suggestions

on how I may learn to be proud of being feminine and learn to feel strong and confident as a

feminine young woman? Thank you for your question, Shayla. So in short, is femininity a weakness?

Absolutely not.

Femininity is your superpower as a woman.

This society likes to make it seem as though being feminine and the traits that feminine woman carry are negative things.

Because in this society, we're all about getting things done and working hard

and being assertive and doing things without, you know, taking the time to take things in

and running over people and competition. It's all very masculine energy, especially like

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