Do you suck at communicating in your relationship?

Are you terrible at it?

Do you feel like you are unable to communicate what you want or what you need?

Do you feel like any time that you get into conflict with your girlfriend or your wife,

that it just sort of spirals into something even bigger than the initial sort of conflict

or argument or disagreement? For a lot of guys,

communication relationships is like one of the big things that they're really trying to work on.

And for a lot of men that I've worked with over the years, when they, when they come in,

whether they're coming to work with me one on one or they're coming to work with me as a couple,

communication is one of the biggest challenges that they seem to be facing in the relationship.

So why is it that many of us struggle to be proficient at communicating in our relationships?

The first thing they're going to say, and I'm going to talk very clearly and give you some

very specific point about how to improve your communication within your relationship. One of the

things that I think most of the videos on YouTube and most of the videos online don't talk about

when it comes to communicating more effectively, right?

Telling her exactly what you want, getting your needs met in a relationship, being clear, being direct.

There's a lot of good stuff out there.

And there's some really good advice or some shitty and terrible advice.

But I think one of the things that most of the videos miss is that poor communication is not just limited to your ability

to express yourself and that conflict and arguments and fights, recurring fights happening

within your relationship, not simply because you or your partner, you know, have some bad habits in your relationship or are,

you know, not very good of communicating. They happen because of the level of regulation

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