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The King's Hall

Fathers Help Their Children Marry Well

The King's Hall

Brian Sauvé, Dan Berkholder, & Eric Conn

Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91K Ratings

🗓️ 14 September 2023

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

Are you grappling with how to guide your children towards godly marriages? The story of Joshua Harris, once an icon of the modern purity movement, whose unfortunate fall from grace prompts us to ponder: How can we protect our daughters from such pitfalls and inspire our sons to seek virtuous women? How can we, as fathers, help our children to marry well and avoid marrying fools?In this episode, we challenge the widely accepted approach to dating, questioning its potential harms and limitation...

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This episode of the Kings Hall is brought to you by Salt and Strings Butchery, private

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family banking, and our supporters at Patreon.com.

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In 1997 a book was published that took Church Youth in Singles Groups by Storm, a book that eventually

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sold over 1.2 million copies.

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The book was titled, I Kiss Dating Goodbye.

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The then 21-year-old author Joshua Harris

0:26.4

encouraged Christians to give up dating

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and discover a life of sincere love, true purity, and a purposeful singleness.

0:35.0

Joshua Harris, as a young man, was touted by the current vice president of content and

0:42.1

editor-in-chief of the Gospel Coalition as quote, the Evangelical Wonder Boy.

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He was a rising star in the Sovereign Grace Ministries camp and became the face of the modern purity movement in American

0:54.8

Evangelicalism. He later became the lead pastor in a Maryland mega church and

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pastor there for nine years. Everything appeared to be going well for Mr. Harris

1:04.4

until he resigned in 2015, citing a lack

1:08.0

of theological education as the reason.

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He intended to attend Regent College in Vancouver, British Columbia to receive theological instruction.

1:18.0

The following year, it appeared that his resignation for the purpose of theological education

1:24.1

was not entirely genuine as he later apologized to those who were hurt

1:29.0

by the purity culture and approach he had taken in his book.

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The trajectory continued when in July 2016 in a social media post,

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he announced he was separating from his wife. He said, quote, in recent years, some significant changes have

1:47.2

taken place for both of us. It is with sincere love for one another and

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